Sunday, 3 June 2018

Everyone must not like technology😀😀

Psquare needs to get back together...

We were once the best of friends,
Then suddenly,
You became a stranger
-vee

Thursday, 12 April 2018

Telling people to respect you is a waste of time.

Respect is not anyone's birthright.

It isn't a compulsion. It's a product of choice.
It is not to be demanded; it is to be deserved.

Instead of wasting your time seeking for respect, work on yourself.

Talk with respect...
Walk with respect...
Think with respect.
Act with respect...

Respect yourself and people will easily respect you.

*DO WE STILL HAVE WOMEN LIKE HER?*

Phone Rings
(Wife Picks up)

Wife: Hello Atanda mi .

Husband: Yes Wuraola mi, get ready we going out today.

Wife: Hmm where exactly are we going? Besides am kind of busy today.

Husband: Stop whatever you are doing and prepare yourself for our special date.

Wife: Alright Ife mi.

Husband: Sharp, I will be there in 30 minutes time.

Wife: Ok, bye.

Husband: Cool(he dropped the call)
...............
In 30 minutes time he arrived at home as per promise.

Husband: Anybody home??? (Knock! Knock!).

Wife: (peeps through the window) Ade Ori Okin mi (come in).

Husband: Baby what's wrong with you? You haven't prepared yourself yet?

Wife: Of course, not until you tell me where exactly you are planning on taking me.

Husband: What's the date today?

Wife: 30th of January.

Husband: Great! Today is my pay day besides I got a salary increment, so I want to go and spoil you big time. Now hurry up go and take a quick bath.

Wife: No my love, am going nowhere with you.

Husband: What does that suppose to mean?

Wife: My love, Ade Ori Okin mi ti ki se ti eye keye, Atanda mi.. I know you love me, but that
shouldn't be reason for you to be spending extravagantly on me.

Husband: what is wrong with that? You are my woman,my first love, mother of my children and I have all the right to spoil you rotten.

Wife: My love, last time I checked your young brother was chased from school because of unpaid balance. You know you are the only one your family depends on. That house your mother lives in, is in a dilapidated state and it needs to be
renovated.

Husband: (listening attentively)

Wife: Instead of spoiling me, use your salary to support those that entirely depend on you for their well being. To me those people comes first, moreover I don't love you because of your money, I love you for who you are.

Husband: But bae..........

Wife: (cuts in) But bae nothing, now hurry up and go and pay the school fees for your brother and help other in serious need as much as your salary can support. If they will be any amount remaining, you can come and share it
with me. I see a husband in you not a bank account.

Husband: (tears drop) What more can I ask from God? He has blessed me with a wonderful woman.I Love you so so much my wife, you are one in a million. I see a true and genuine wife in you not a slut or the so called Slay Queens of our generation.

Wife: I love you too my husband. Ife mi.. Ade Ori Okin mi.. Olowo Ori mi...

Husband: Come here(he spread his arms for the hug)They shared a warmth hug...and the Husband sat with the wife to plan how they could spend the money wisely in an effort to help those in genuine need of their help.

Now That's Real Love

The Question is:

*DO SUCH WIVES STILL EXIST IN THIS WORLD?*.... I leave the men to confirm while we ladies have a rethink...

*If you are a woman reading this message,how do you evaluate yourself? What are you doing about becoming a better wife that your husband will constantly desire to consult from even in serious decision making.*

Be wise my dear reader and do the right thing.
Be a wife with a difference.
May God direct you aright.

Wednesday, 11 April 2018

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Lesson of life

Saturday, 31 March 2018

I found this somewhere and it made me think,
I'm still learning...✌✌

WHEN TO BE SILENT.in 20 situations. The Bible says:-

1. Be silent In the heat of
anger - (Prov 14:17)

2. Be silent When you don't
have all the facts - (Prov
18:13)

3. Be silent When you
haven't verified the story -
(Deut 17:6)

4. Be silent If your words
will offend a weaker
person - (1 Cor 8:11)

5. Be silent When it is time
to listen - (Prov 13:1)

6. Be silent When you are
tempted to make light of
holy things - (Eccl 5:2)

7. Be silent When you are
tempted to joke about
sin - (Prov 14:9)

8. Be silent If you would be
ashamed of your words
later - (Prov 8:8)

9. Be silent If your words
would convey the wrong
impression - (Prov 17:27)

10. Be silent If the issue is
none of your business -
(Prov 14:10)

11. Be silent When you are
tempted to tell an
outright lie - (Prov 4:24)

12. Be silent If your words
will damage someone
else's reputation - (Pro
16:27)

13. Be silent If your words
will damage a friendship
- (Prov 16:28)

14. Be silent When you are
feeling critical - (James
3:9)

15. Be silent If you can't say
it without screaming it -
(Prov 25:28)

16. Be silent If your words
will be a poor reflection
of the Lord or your
friends and family - (1 Pt
2:21-23)

17. Be silent If you may
have to eat your words
later - (Prov 18:21)

18. Be silent If you have
already said it more
than one time - (Prov
19:13)

19. Be silent When you are
tempted to flatter a
wicked person - (Prov
24:24)

20. Be silent When you are
supposed to be working
instead - (Prov 14:23)

"WHOEVER GUARDS HIS MOUTH AND TONGUE KEEPS HIS SOUL FROM TROUBLES" - (Prov 21:23).

May the grace of the Lord grant you & me understanding.
Happy Easter in advance

Tuesday, 27 March 2018

Successful people have two things on their lips, "smile and silence". Smile can solve a problem, Silence can avoid problems. Sugar and salt may be mixed together but ants reject the salt and carry away only the sugar. Select the right people in life and make your life better and sweeter. If you fail to achieve your dreams, change your ways not your God. Remember, trees change their leaves and not their roots. You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks. Haters will see you walking on water and say its because you can't swim. Even if you dance on water, your enemies will accuse you of raising dust. Make it your ambition to live a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your own hands. Remember, don’t ever wrestle with a pig. You’ll both get dirty, but the pig will enjoy it. -- Be Inspired and have a great day . Be kind and share.
God is walking from door to door depositing success and good health. He has just left my home and asked me who He could go to next. I directed Him to your house. Receive His light and grace but don't keep Him in your house.

Monday, 26 March 2018

ROLLY'S COMEDY SEASON 1.

1. Self sacrifice is when two witches from your village are discussing who's gonna be the next victim.....then you pass by singing "I'm the one" by DJ khaled...you are finished.
2. I bought power Bank N650 and I was very happy it was cheap until my phone started charging the power Bank.
3. I just love Nigerian university's, their identity cards comes with Rope..just incase you are tired of life.
4. Someone should better tell ETISALAT no matter how they try,ain't nobody gonna start calling them 9mobile.
They should go and ask NEPA.
5. Naija police be like: Oga why are you walking on the road with singlet in this cold weather ?
You want cold to enter your body so you can go and look for somebody's daughter to rape abi? You are under arrest for attempting rape in advance my friend enter motor.
6. When 9ja babe is tired of you,
Guy: Bae can we see today?
Bae: Are we blind before?
7. Some girls don't even gym but still look physically fit cos of running from one man to another.
8. See me see MTN!!!....Lolzz
Dear customer, this is a message of warning that you should kindly pay the #200 dat you borrowed or else we are going to forward all the text message you sent to your girlfriend to your wife.
9. Chineke!!...Even my phone wants to leave Nigeria.
I am typing MALARIA its typing MALAYSIA..
10. The time I knew this recession was getting tough is when I heard a man pricing NEPA bills.
..Bros How much for low current ??

😀😀😀😀😁😁😁😁😁😁😂😂😁

No matter how Black or Dark a girl is
One Desperate guy will still call her
"My Sunshine"
#Its_a_monday_Morning

The girl who refused to show me her br**st in secondary school is sitted next to me in a Bus breastfeeding her baby....
God is wonderful

Sunday, 25 March 2018

Don't drink poison, get drunk, get into drugs, or commit suicide in the name of love or heartbreak. No partner or relationship is worth suicide. No boyfriend or girlfriend is worth your life or happiness.
You're first a human before another's partner. Even the Bible says love your neighbor as yourself. It didn't suggest you should love anybody more than yourself.
If a partner tells you "IT'S OVER" or he/she abandons you for another person; pick your pieces and move on! Don't die there. Stop the foolish fight for love that's already gone. Stop contemplating suicide or jumping into the lagoon.
Of course it's not easy especially when you've blindly invested your time, money, resources, and even sex on that partner or relationship. Learn to love with commonsense and not like a fool. Loving someone more than they love you is not a safe practice.
It is easier for them to walk out of your life because the feeling is not mutual or genuine, the bond is not as attractive as what you feel for them. It is not easy to walk away or abandon someone you genuinely love.
When people take a walk from your life; thank God for exposing them and move on. If you're at fault or the reason for the heartbreak; learn from your mistakes and move on as well especially where forgiveness or second chance is no longer guaranteed. Don't destroy yourself with toxic substances or poison over someone who doesn't give a damn about your feelings or how you're gonna handle the heartbreak.
Again, stop the foolish investment in a relationship that is yet to grow into marriage. Whatever you can't give out as a gift, don't give to that partner. One of the practical reasons many young people contemplate suicide or go into serious depression in the event of heartbreak is additional losses such as money, time, or huge sacrifices given to that partner when the relationship was still rocking.
A single lady almost committed suicide after being duped and heartbroken by a man who promised her marriage. A man cried like a baby when he saw wedding IV card of his girlfriend he sponsored through university getting married to another man. Another lady went into depression when her boyfriend of 12 years she has done multiple abortions for got engaged to another woman.
In all the case studies above; commonsense is obviously lacking. It is not save to love like a fool or love blindly in modern times. Dubious people will take advantage and ruin your life for you.
As an advice; do not offer generosity in any relationship because of marriage. Do it because you're capable and willing as well as moved to help. Give only what you're sure will not cause depression for you if that relationship ends.
Every relationship is a risk, play safe. Don't give your entire savings to a partner in expectation of marriage. Don't borrow money or become a debtor of huge amount of money because of a partner that is yet to propose. Your blood pressure will definitely increase when he/she runs away or disappear.
Always consider your personal happiness and safety in whatever you do in any relationship. Consider your time as well. How can you as lady with brain spend years dating a man and aborting babies for him? How can you as a financially buoyant man be training a lady through university for years without doing formal introduction or at least paying her bride pride?
You're not smart , you're planting your seed at the road side for anybody to harvest. If her people are the reason behind the delay, let them train her themselves so you can wait till she graduates before paying the bride price or engaging her formally.
You the lady that is dating that boyfriend for years, aborting every child in your womb because he's not ready; you're not wise! A wrestler that is not ready for a match has no business in the ring. He has seen your stupidity/ignorance and capitalizes on it. Blind love is toxic. If he's not ready for marriage, you shouldn't be ready for pregnancy as well. His future shouldn't be more important than your own happiness or future.
You that is willing to borrow or give millions of naira to a partner because of desperation for marriage; you're not wise! Give or lend money you can give out as a gift not money that will cause depression in your life when he/she refuse to payback. Love is not wicked, people only choose to love blindly. You must learn to love yourself first before you can love another person or else you'll become a scapegoat or another victim of blind love. © 2018.

It is only in Nigeria a girl will complain to her friends that she is broke and the next thing you will hear is, "I thought you have a boyfriend".

So a boyfriend can be defined as an employment opportunity or a bank!?

Well, the truth is, you and your friends are just prostitutes!

#ThatsAll

THE WAY LADY'S CHEAT DIS DAYS EHN.. THEY CAN GIVE BIRTH TO TWINS ND DEY WILL STILL HAVE DIFFERENT FATHER'S 😂😂😂

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skinny bae with
big head
be like 🚩
(flag)

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Thursday, 22 March 2018

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SEX & LOVE

What Happens When You Go to Sex Therapy

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1 day ago

March 20, 2018

Princess J

If you’re thinking about looking into sex therapy or are just curious about it, you may wonder what it’s all about. First off—don’t worry. You’re not having sex in front of a therapist to get pointers and tips. Instead, a sex therapist can help you (and possibly your partner) work through issues you may be experiencing. .’s how they do it.

What is Sex Therapy, Anyway?

Dr. Piper Grant, founder of Numi Psychology, is a licensed psychologist and sex therapist that specializes in working with both couples and individuals on issues that relate to sex, intimacy and relationships. She explains that sex therapy is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on sexual function and dysfunction—and while it is a specialized treatment for sexual issues, it actually utilizes many techniques of traditional talk therapy.

“Whether as a couple or an individual—you can go alone or together—sex therapy can help you develop ways to deepen intimacy, heal from sexual traumas, reconnect with yourself and partner, increase your sexual confidence and address sexual dysfunction,” she says. People go to sex therapy for many different reasons, she notes. Sexual concerns are one problem that drives people to sex therapy, but there are other issues that may be at . in a relationship that might lead them to book an appointment.

“Although sexual concerns are common, discord in desire within couple-ships is normal, and sexual dysfunction happens for most people at some point in their lifetime,” Grant says. “However, not many people know how to cope or work on the presenting issue.” Some common issues that sex therapy can help with include erectile dysfunction, painful sex, loss of intimacy, low sexual desire, compulsive sexual behavior, difficulty reaching orgasm or a difference in relationship desires. Additionally, sex therapy can help increase your sexual-esteem, help you deepen intimacy in a relationship, recover from sexual trauma and repair past problems in your relationship.

However, it’s crucial to keep in mind there is no one-size-fits-all therapy for sexual issues. Dr. Nicole Prause is a licensed psychologist in California and a scientist studying treatments for sexual problems, and she emphasizes that different sexual problems require different treatment therapies. “A woman experiencing pain during intercourse—dyspareunia—does not get therapy that looks much like a woman with anorgasmia,” she says.

What Happens During a Session?

By now, you must be wondering how exactly a sex therapist works with an individual or a couple. As mentioned above, sex therapy is similar to traditional talk therapy—it’s just the topic that’s different. In essence, a good sex therapist will look beyond the mechanics of sex and will work on addressing the underlying issues, such as behaviors, emotions, traumas or any other dynamics that may be contributing to the sexual problem.

Xanet Pailet, a sex and intimacy coach and founder of Power of Pleasure, explains that her initial sessions allow the therapist or coach to get to know the client and to begin to establish comfort and safety before digging deeper into the client’s background and sexual history.

Grant emphasizes that you will not perform sexual acts in front of your therapist, and you should not be touched by your therapist. She also says that it’s important to realize that sex therapy has limitations and there is no miracle cure, but if you’re working with a qualified sex therapist and have mutual trust and respect between the two (or three) of you, positive changes can be made.

As far as prep work before your appointment goes, it’s best not to stress about it. Dr. James I. Millhouse, a licensed psychologist with Atlanta Psychological Associates, notes, “The only preparation needed is to make the decision that you are open to learning new things and a commitment to being totally open and honest.”

For those who can benefit from a sex therapist, it’s nice to know there are plenty of professionals who can help you work through your issues with kindness and strength so you can be in a place of healing and good health.

Originally posted on SheKnows.